Terms of use
Short, and in the same plain language as the rest of the site. Using Mutual Kinks means you accept what’s below.
You have to be 18 or over
This tool lists explicit adult activities by name. It is for adults only. If you are under 18, stop here and close the tab.
Everyone you invite into a session has to be an adult too. Do not send a session link to anyone you do not know to be over 18.
What this is
A free tool that finds the overlap between what several people privately said yes to. There is no account, no payment and no contract beyond this page.
A match is not consent, and it is not a plan. It means two or more people were curious on the same evening. The negotiation — limits, safewords, health, aftercare — happens between people, out loud, and this tool does none of it. How your data is handled covers what is stored and for how long.
What you agree not to do
Do not use this to pressure anyone. Nobody owes you a filled-in list, a yes, or an explanation for a no. If someone stops partway through, that is a complete answer.
Do not enter anyone else’s information, do not put real names, contact details or anything identifying into a display name or a custom interest, and do not share another participant’s results with people outside the session.
Do not use this for anything illegal, and do not describe activity involving minors, coercion, or anyone who cannot consent. Do not attack the service, scrape it, or try to reach sessions you were not invited to.
What you write stays yours
Custom interests and display names are yours. We claim no ownership and use them for nothing except running the session you put them in. When the session expires they are erased along with everything else.
You are responsible for what you type. If you enter something that identifies you or someone else, the tool cannot undo that for you.
Sessions end, and nothing is kept
Every session expires on the schedule its creator picked, and expiry is permanent. There is no archive, no backup and no recovery — not for you, and not for us. Save anything you want to keep before the countdown runs out.
We may remove a session or block use of the service if it is being used against these terms, and we may change or shut down the tool entirely. It’s free and run by nobody in particular, so treat it as something that could be gone tomorrow rather than something to rely on.
No warranty
This is provided as-is, with no guarantee that it works, stays available, or keeps your data safe from every possible failure. Bugs, downtime and data loss are all possible. The honest limits of what we can see and protect are set out in How your data is handled.
To the fullest extent the law allows, whoever runs this is not liable for any harm arising from your use of it — including anything that happens between you and the people you shared a session with. What you do with a result is between the people in the room.
Which law applies
These terms are governed by the laws of the Commonwealth of Virginia, in the United States, without regard to its conflict-of-laws rules. Any dispute goes to the state or federal courts located in Virginia.
That said, consumer-protection rules where you actually live may apply whatever this page says, and nothing here is meant to take away a right you have under them.
Changes to these terms
These terms can change. There are no accounts, so there is no way to email you about it — the version on this page is the one that applies, and continuing to use the tool means accepting it.
Who runs this
A free community tool. No company, no ads, no investors and no revenue — there is nothing here that would ever make your answers worth selling.