Mutual Kinks

Free · Private · 18+

Find out what you’re all into

A yes/no/maybe kink list you each fill out privately. Only the things everyone marked show up — anything one-sided stays with you, and nobody is ever told it existed.

Setup takes about a minute. Nothing to download.

How it works

Create a session

Name it, choose how long it should last, and share the link. Setup takes about a minute.

Everyone fills theirs in alone

Each person marks what they're into and what role they'd take — top, bottom, switch, or voyeur. Own phone, own time. Expect five or ten minutes.

Only the overlap appears

Results show the interests everyone marked as a yes on their own list. Nothing one-sided ever shows up.

How your answers are handled

One-sided answers stay yours

If you mark something nobody else did, it never appears — not in the results, not as a hint, not as a count.

It deletes itself

Pick 1 day, 1 week, or 1 month when you create the session. When it expires every answer is erased. There's nothing to un‑share later.

Sent only when you submit

Change your mind halfway through and close the tab — not one of the things you picked was ever saved anywhere.

No accounts, nothing to install

No sign-up, no email, no app, no cookies. Everyone just opens a link.

How your data is handled →

Two to twelve people

A couple, a triad, a play group — or two people who haven't played together yet and would rather compare lists than guess.

Free, and not a business

No premium tier, no limits, no ads, and no investor who eventually needs your data to be worth something.

The built-in list covers bondage, impact, power exchange, sensation, roleplay and more — 27 interests across 7 categories, written plainly. Add your own in any format. You can also choose whether results need compatible roles (Role‑Matched) or just mutual interest (Interest Only).

Got a code?

Enter the 6-character code you were sent.

If you were sent a link, just open it — you don’t need this.

Make a list. Send the link. See what overlaps.

About a minute to set up, five or ten to fill in. Nothing one-sided ever shows up.

Create a Session

Free, no account, about a minute.